Jealousy vs Insecurity
嫉妒和不安全感是两种经常彼此伴随的情绪,尽管这两种感觉之间存在区别。嫉妒是存在的状态enviousof another. A person can feel jealous of another individual based on that person’s appearance,wealth,成就,以及生活的许多其他方面。另一方面,不安全感是指对自己的自信不足的状态。例如,如果一个人对自己不安全;他的成就水平,那个人嫉妒另一个人是很自然的,因为那个人拥有他没有的东西。但是,嫉妒和不安全感通常被认为是人的负面特质。通过本文,我们让我们研究了这两个国家之间的差异,嫉妒和不安全感,同时了解每个单词。
What is Jealousy?
Jealousy can be defined asthestate of being envious of another. This is considered as a negative quality. A person can feel jealous of another individual for a range of reasons. It can be due to achievements andsuccess, wealth, relationships, physical appearance, etc. This highlights that jealousy is usually triggered due to external factors. Once the factor is removed, the person goes back to his usual state. In life, we all experience jealousy at some point or the other. This is quite natural. However, one has to bear in mind that it should not be fueled at any cost. Let us understand the concept of jealousy through an example:
Two very close friends are being approached by a third person. One of the friends begins to become close to the new friend and enjoy a harmonious relationship. The friend who is left out might feel jealous because he/she feels left out.
这强调了由于各种原因可以触发嫉妒。想象一下您班上一个绝对美丽的女孩的情况。您可能会嫉妒这个人,因为她有您没有的东西。特别是在关系中,嫉妒是纠纷的主要原因之一。尽管不仅是不安全的人嫉妒,但这通常与不安全感有关,尽管不安全的人嫉妒的顺序比普通人大得多。
What is Insecurity?
Insecurity iswhen an individual is not confident of himself. When this happens, the individual tends to feel ‘not good enough.’ Lowself-esteem, low self-worth, and lack of信心是在不安全的人中可以看到的一些素质。不安全可能是非常负面的,因为它使个人处于对他人羡慕的位置。
For example, imagine a lover who is insecure about himself. There is a high tendency of this individual becoming very possessive and dominating of the partner because of this insecurity. He feels threatened by others and is in constant fear of not being good enough.
Unlike jealousy, insecurity is an internal factor. It is often triggered by the individual’s own lack of self-worth rather than external factors. This highlights that jealousy and insecurity are two different words, which are related to a certain extent.
What is the difference between Jealousy and Insecurity?
• Jealousy is the state of being envious of another whereas Insecurity refers to the state of having insufficient confidence in one’s self.
• Jealousy is mainly due to external factors whereas Insecurity is often triggered due to internal factors.
•一个不安全的人经历低self-esteem, low self-worth and lack of confidence in the long run, but these cannot be seen in a jealous person.
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King Georgesays
Thank you so much for expansiating on these terms. These are my Achiles Heels. I get really jealous and feel insecure in my relationship. To be candid, am a bit of a handicap person, so most times, I feel insecure about my relationship. She is damn pretty and she had assured me that she truly loves me, yet I’m scared that I might lose her. I get jealous when guys come around her. I try to fight back the thought that she might be cheating, but the thought keeps coming. Any advise?